Tuesday, September 30, 2025

September 30, 2025




By the simplest definition grace is “unmerited favor” or “unconditional love.” It’s the exercise of love and kindness to benefit or serve another.

Someday, after mastering the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love, and then, for a second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire

. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin 


"What is grace? I know until you ask me; when you ask me, I do not know."

Saint Augustine 

Grace is the spiritual freedom that arises from living in harmony with yourself, with others and with the cosmos.


 To be human is to grow toward an acceptance of paradox and widen our capacity to tolerate uncertainty until we say “I don’t know” more often than “I know.”

— Sheryl Paul




Sunday, September 28, 2025

September 28th, 2025

Living in Harmony with The Lifeforce is Always Our Choice 



Worth Repeating 

All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well. – Julian of Norwich

Julian asked: “Ah, good Lord, how could all things be well, because of the great harm which has come through sin to your creatures?” (227).

This was God’s response to her: “And so our good Lord answered all the questions and doubts which I could raise, saying most comfortingly: I make all things well, and I can make all things well, and I shall make all things well, and I will make all things well; and you will see for yourself that every kind of thing will be well. ... And in these words God wish

September 29, 2025

 

I can't harden myself to match the cruelty around me. know that love is the only way forward. Real healing doesn't grow from brutality. It grows from compassion. Love is not weakness it's the most radical form of resistance in a world that thrives on fear. 

Ella Hicks


Knock, And He'll open the door.  

      Vanish, And He'll make you shine like the sun 

Fall, And He'll raise you to the heavens

 Become nothing, And He'll turn you into everything.

Rumi



True education is not education for any purpose: like all striving for perfection, it carries its purpose within itself. Just as striving to attain physical strength, dexterity, and beauty serves no ultimate end, such as making us rich, famous, and powerful, but instead is its own reward... so the striving after 'education', that is, after improvement of the mind, is not an arduous journey toward any definite goal, but an exhilarating and fortifying broadening of our consciousness, an enrichment of our potential for life and happiness. In this respect, true education is always both a fulfillment and a stimulus. 

Herman Hesse



What is Hope? a star that gleaming
O'er the future's troubled sky,
Struggles, tremulously beaming,
To reveal what there may lie.
~R.A.P., "Hope," in Southern Literary Messenger, December 1840

Friday, September 26, 2025

September 27th, 2025

Empathy and Compassion 


 'Let us not underestimate how hard it is to be compassionate.

Compassion is hard because it requires the inner disposition to go with others to a place where they are weak, vulnerable, lonely, and broken. But this is not our spontaneous response to suffering. What we desire most is to do away with suffering by fleeing from it or finding a quick cure for it."

Henri J.M. Nouwen






September 26th, 2025

 


This being human is a guest house.

Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

Rumi

Wednesday, September 24, 2025

September 23rd, 2025

Humanness As a Path to Wholeness


Palestinian Christian theologian Munther Isaac challenges us to confront the deep disconnect between the nonviolent teaching of Jesus and the ways of Humanness (author used Christianity)  has often aligned with systems of power and violence, even today

Humanness (author used Christianity) and violence should not go hand in hand, at least theoretically. The teachings of Jesus are very clear. The teachings of Paul and the apostles are very clear. There is no place for violence for the followers of Jesus. Yet an honest assessment of even the last 150 years will clearly reveal that many who claimed to be Christians committed some of the worst atrocities in our world: the Belgians in Congo, the Germans in Namibia, the French in Algeria, the Bosnian Serbs in Bosnia-Herzegovina, the genocide against the Tutsi in Rwanda, the Guatemalan genocide against the Laya indigenous people, and of course the Holocaust against the Jewish people in Europe.  

The Bible and theology have played a significant role in this war of genocide in Gaza.… To be clear, I fully believe that when Scripture is used to justify genocide or promote ideologies of supremacy, this use has nothing to do with the teachings of Jesus nor the essence of the Christian faith. Yet, shamefully, the church has aligned itself with empire throughout the centuries. It has chosen the path of power and influence. One would expect Christians to have learned the lesson. We have not.

Munther Isaac

September 25, 2025

 The wish to hurt, the momentary intoxication with pain, is the loophole through which the pervert climbs into the minds of ordinary men.

-Jacob Bronowski




This is the concentration camp and crematorium at Auschwitz. This is where people were turned into numbers. Into this pond were flushed the ashes of some four million people. And that was not done by gas. It was done by arrogance. It was done by dogma. It was done by ignorance. When people believe that they have absolute knowledge, with no test in reality, this is how they behave.

— Jacob Bronowski

The world is full of people suffering from the effects of their own unlived life. They become bitter, critical, or rigid, not because the world is cruel to them, but because they have betrayed theirinner possibilities. The artist who never makes art becomes cynical about those who do. The lover who never risks loving mocks romance. The thinker who never commits to a philosophy sneers at belief itself. And yet, all of them suffer, because deep down they know: the life they mock is the life they were meant to live. 
Carl Jung

September 24, 2025

 Doubt and Uncertainty


Here are some quotes about doubt in the face of uncertainty as is being Manifest in Our Communial Times. 

God approaches us from many different perspectives: illness, misfortune, bankruptcy, divorce proceedings, rejection, inner trials. God has not promised to take away our trials, but to help us to change our attitudes toward them. That is what holiness really is. In this life, happiness is rooted in our basic attitude toward reality.

— Thomas Keating

As human beings, not only do we seek resolution, but we also feel that we deserve resolution. However, not only do we not deserve resolution, we suffer from resolution. We don't deserve resolution; we deserve something better than that. We deserve our birthright, which is the middle way, an open state of mind that can relax with paradox and ambiguity.
Pema Chödrön

Man must accept the responsibility for himself and the fact that only by using his own powers can he give meaning to his life. But meaning does not imply certainty; indeed, the quest for certainty blocks the search for meaning. Uncertainty is the very condition to impel a man to unfold his powers. If he faces the truth without panic, he will recognize that there is no meaning to life except the meaning man gives his life by the unfolding of his powers, by living productively.

Erich Fromm (1900-1980) American psychoanalyst and social philosopher
Man for Himself, ch. 3 (1947)
    (Source)



Man is a rope stretched between the animal and the superman – a rope over an abyss.

— Friedrich Nietzche



Monday, September 22, 2025

September 22nd, 2025


A  bouquet of thoughts 







Let no one be slow to seek wisdom when
 they are young nor weary in the search thereof when they have grown old. For no age is too early or too late for the health of the soul. And to say that the season for studying philosophy has not yet come, or that it is past and gone, is like saying that the season for happiness is not yet or that it is now no more.”
Epicurus

Given the scale of life in the cosmos, one human life is no more than a tiny blip. Each one of us is a just visitor to this planet, a guest, who will only stay for a limited time. What greater folly could there be than to spend this short time alone, unhappy or in conflict with our companions? Far better, surely, to use our short time here in living a meaningful life, enriched by our sense of connection with others and being of service to them.

Empathy

It is the ability to put yourself in another person's shoes, to feel what they feel, to "put yourself in their shoes."

It is the key to understanding others and thus being able to forgive them, after forgiving ourselves




Sunday, September 21, 2025

September 21st, 2025



Remember that when you leave this earth, you can take with you nothing that you have received — only what you have given: a full heart, enriched by honest service, love, sacrifice, and courage. — Attr. St. Francis of Assisi


Our job, as souls on this mortal journey, is to shift the seat of our identity from the ego to the Self. That’s it.” Steven Pressfield (Source)



 

Perfectionism is the ego’s wicked demand. It denies us the pleasure of process. Instead, we are told by the ego that we must have instantaneous success — and our perfectionism believes it, lock, stock and barrel.” Julia Cameron (Source)



Friday, September 19, 2025

September 20th, 2025


Beautifully Stated by Rumi

"I should be Suspicious of What "I" want"









Click for Overview of
spiritual Alchemy



 


Thursday, September 18, 2025

September 19th, 2025

  Grief is our bond with the World


"The pain you feel after losing someone isn't a sign of weakness, it's love with no place to go. It's the heart trying to hold on, the memories still speaking. Don't rush to silence the ache. Let it breathe. Let the tears fall if they need to. That ache is proof of how deeply you cared, how real the bond was. It hurts because it mattered. And in that pain, there's still love; quiet, strong, and waiting to be felt. Let it remind you that your heart truly loved.", 

September 18th, 2025


 Thoughts on Spiritual Health 
in the Face of evil 


Living and dying, sorrow and joy, the blisters on my feet and the jasmine behind the house, the persecution, the unspeakable horrors: it is all as one in me, and I accept it all as one mighty whole and begin to grasp it better if only for myself, without being able to explain to anyone else how it all hangs together.

Etty Hillesum 

(died @ Auschwitz) 









Wednesday, September 17, 2025

September 17th, 2025

If We each can say, one prayer today, for all Sentient Beings. We can alleviate, to some degree ~ the shared suffering of All Sentient Beings. 

This is our Duty


To one who has faith, no explanation is necessary. To one without faith, no explanation is possible.

Thomas Aquina




Stoic philosopher Epictetus put it this way:

“Some things are in our control and others not. 

Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. 

Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our actions.”

Tuesday, September 16, 2025

September 16th, 2025

 Briana Ní Loingsigh 

In the Irish language, we are not our Emotions. We are not sad or anxious. We have sadness or anxiety on us.

To say I am sad we say tá brón orm - there is sadness on me.

I am anxious, tá imní orm - there is anxiety on me.

The language recognizes these as passing states, not permanent fixtures of who we are.

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What a Wonderful Method of Viewing Emotional States. 

I ponder the following emotional states (below) as they manifest and are expressed through the Corporal Human Experience. And as such they are limited to Our Shared Human Experience. 

Interestingly Love is not considered an Emotion, again I ponder the significance of this. From my perspective the Love of which I speak is sourced beyond the Human Experience, it is the sustenance of the Spiritual Realm. And readily available to all seekers. 

For myself I was mired in and believed in the Human Experience as the end all. I couldn't imagine trusting anything more that I did My Human Experience ~ this is where I effectively blocked the Sunlight of the Spirit. Through the work I've undertaken (with my Tribe) and patiently and painstakingly I was humbly graced with a moment of illumination of the deepest, most inclusive, expansive glimpse of Our Source, Our Shared Birthright and Our True Home. 



Researchers at University of California, Berkeley identified 27 categories of emotion:

admiration, 
adoration, 
aesthetic 
appreciation, 
amusement, 
anger, 
anxiety, 
awe, 
awkwardness, 
boredom, 
calmness, 
confusion, 
craving, 
disgust, 
empathic 
pain, 
entrancement, 
excitement, 
fear, 
horror, 
interest, 
joy, 
nostalgia, 
relief, 
romance, 
sadness, 
satisfaction, 
sexual desire and
surprise.
Saddness
Anger
Depression 
Fear 
Abandonment

Love is often not considered a basic emotion due to its complexity, duration, and the fact that it's a multifaceted phenomenon encompassing feelings, thoughts, and behaviors, rather than a fleeting, reactive response. While some psychologists define it as a complex emotion, it is more accurately described as an attachment, a disposition, a physiological drive, or a combination of these, which makes it fundamentally different from short-lived, stimulus-bound emotions like happiness or sadness
 

Monday, September 15, 2025

September 15th, 2025

Take What You Will, 


For My Friends in the Recovery World, I hope I've humbly and hopefully used  words that resonate, for My Friends in the World please know The Universe is Your Greatest Lover ~ and Greatest Good for You & Our Shared Human Experience is to be a Conduit channeling that Universal Love into Our Shared Human Experience. 

Another more profound concept comes from Antoine de Saint-Exupéry's The Little Prince: "On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux," meaning "One sees clearly only with the heart. What is essential is invisible to the eye".



Two Foundational Influences Associated with Alcoholics Anonymous ~ but open and Applicable to Any Soul with the Willingness to Make Ammends for, and Desire to Change and address Past foibles or Human Shortcomings, which leads to Self Forgiveness. Which opens a Pathway to the Universal Intelligence that Beats my Heart, Raises My Eyes, when in Despair and Provides a Unshakable Truth that Resonates and Animates Every, Atom, Molecule both within and without. 

 


 Bill W. considered W illiam James a "Co-founder' of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) because he found validation and a framework for his own spiritual expe- rience in James's Varieties of Religious Experience. Bill W. used James's work, which documented various religious experiences, to un- derstand and explain the sudden spiritual awakening he had that helped cure his alcoholism. He even described AA's foundational ideas as a "wholesale" application of James's insights to the problem of alcoholism, a process detailed in the AA Big Book.


Bill W. viewed Carl Jung's contribution to Alcoholics Anonymous as foundational, particularly for his insight that alcoholism was a spiritual "craving for whole- ness" that could not be cured by medical means alone, but required a spiritual experience or connection to a higher power. 

Bill specifically thanked Jung in a letter for his role in conveying this necessary spiritual dimension to Roland H, a story that eventually reached Bill and influ- enced his own recovery.

Jung's Role in AA's Founding Spiritual "Thirst":

Spiritual Thirst 

Jung believed that the alcoholic's intense desire for alcohol was a manifestation of a deeper spiritual "thirst" for meaning and wholeness, which he famously summarized as "spiritus contra spiritum" (spirit against spirit).

Hopelessness in Medicine:

Jung's candid admission to Roland H. that medical and psychiatric treatments offered no hope for a chronic alcoholic was a critical first step for H. to seek a spiritual solution, a concept Bill W. came to understand as essential for recovery.

Passing on the Message:

Roland H., having been treated by Jung, later conveyed this spiritual message to his alcoholic friend, Ebby Thacher, who then passed it to Bill W. This chain of events directly linked Jung's insights to the origins of AA.

Bill W.'s Appreciation

Direct Communication:

Bill W. wrote to Jung in 1961, months before the psychiatrist's death, to express profound gratitude for his significant, though indirect, role in the founding of AA.

Humility and Deep Perception: 

Bill acknowledged Jung's deep perception and humility in identifying the spiritual need behind alcoholism, seeing it as the starting point for AA's spiritual approach to recovery.

Enduring Influence:

Bill W. recognized that Jung's work provided a vital foundation for the spiritual dimension of AA, distinguishing it from purely intellectual or chemical understandings of life and recovery.



Sunday, September 14, 2025

September 14th, 2025

  I'm Investigating Not Postulating
That
Love is The Language of the Heart






Key Aspects of Merton's View on Love:

Love for the Other:
Love begins by allowing the person you love to be perfectly themselves, rather than shaping them into your own
idealized image.

Divine Ground of Love:
Merton saw love as the fundamental building block of the universe and the reason for our existence, connecting it to being made in the image of God.

Unconditional Love:
The job of loving is to love without questioning the worthiness of the other person. This love itself creates worthiness in both the lover and the beloved.

Disinterested Love:
True love prioritizes the good of the beloved above the lover's own satisfaction.

Love and Freedom:
Merton believed that love and freedom are deeply interconnected, with freedom serving as the ground and goal for love's expression.

Love as Universal:
There isn't just one kind of love; rather, a single, powerful stream of divine love manifests in various ways through all relationships.

Love is its Own Reward: 
The joy of love is found in the good of the beloved, not in seeking a resulting satisfaction.

In essence, Merton argued that to love is to embrace another's
existence and to recognize the shared divine source within each person, which leads to a more
authentic and meaningful
Connection..


Saturday, September 13, 2025

September 13th, 2025



Quotations from

“Is Life Worth Living?”

by William James


Welcome to my page of quotations from "Is Life Worth Living?," an 1895 speech by psychologist and philosopher William James about mind over matter, free will, belief, faith, and optimism. I first studied James nearly thirty years ago in a college psychology course, and many of his words have stayed with me to this day. Note: I've modified some of these quotes from their original wording. Source information is at the bottom of the page. –tg

For this hour, I ask you to ignore the surface-glamour of existence, the buzzing and jigging and vibration of small interests and excitements that form the tissue of our ordinary consciousness, and instead turn your attention to the profounder bass-note of life.

With many men the question of life's worth is answered by a temperamental optimism which makes them incapable of believing that anything seriously evil can exist. Our dear old Walt Whitman's works are the standing text-book of this kind of optimism. The mere joy of living is so immense in his veins that it abolishes the possibility of any other kind of feeling: —

      "To breathe the air, how delicious!

       To speak, to walk...

       O amazement of things, even the least particle!...

       I too throb to the brain and beauty of the earth...

       I praise with electric voice,

       For I do not see one imperfection in the universe,

       And I do not see one cause or result lamentable at last."

And so Rousseau, writing of the nine years he spent at Annecy: "...happiness followed me everywhere... it was all within myself..."

But we are not magicians to make the optimistic temperament universal.

So far as man stands for anything, his entire vital function may be said to have to deal with maybes. Not a victory is gained, not a deed of faithfulness or courage is done, except upon a maybe. It is only by risking our persons from one hour to another that we live at all. And often enough our faith beforehand in an uncertified result is the only thing that makes the result come true.

Suppose, for instance, that you are climbing a mountain, and have worked yourself into a position from which the only escape is by a terrible leap. Have faith that you can successfully make it, and your feet are nerved to its accomplishment. But mistrust yourself... you roll in the abyss.

Refuse to believe, and you shall indeed be right. But believe, and again you shall be right, for you shall save yourself. You make one or the other of two possible universes true by your trust or mistrust, — both universes having been only maybes.

Suppose that instead of giving way to the nightmare view you cling to it that this world is not the ultimatum. Suppose you find yourself a very well-spring, as Wordsworth says, of —

      "Zeal, and the virtue to exist by faith

       As soldiers live by courage; as, by strength

       Of heart, the sailor fights with roaring seas."

Suppose, however thickly evils crowd upon you, that your unconquerable subjectivity proves to be their match, and that you find a more wonderful joy than any passive pleasure can bring in trusting ever in the larger whole. Have you not now made life worth living on these terms? What sort of a thing would life really be, with your qualities ready for a tussle with it, if it only brought fair weather and gave these higher faculties of yours no scope?

Please remember that optimism and pessimism are definitions of the world, and that our own reactions on the world, small as they are in bulk, are integral parts of the whole thing, and necessarily help to determine the definition.

This life is worth living, we can say, since it is what we make it, from the moral point of view; and we are determined to make it from that point of view, so far as we have anything to do with it, a success.

God himself may draw vital strength and increase of very being from our fidelity.

For my own part, I do not know what the sweat and blood and tragedy of this life mean, if they mean anything short of this. If this life be not a real fight, in which something is eternally gained for the universe by success, it is no better than a game of private theatricals from which one may withdraw at will.

It feels like a real fight, — as if there were something really wild in the universe which we, with all our idealities and faithfulnesses, are needed to redeem; and first of all to redeem our own hearts from atheisms and fears. For such a half-wild, half-saved universe our nature is adapted.

The deepest thing in our nature is this Binnenleben (as Viennese neurologist Sigmund Freud lately has called it), this dumb region of the heart in which we dwell alone with our willingnesses and unwillingnesses, our faiths and fears — as he terms it, the buried life of human beings. Here is our deepest organ of communication with the nature of things — for here possibilities, not finished facts, are the realities with which we have actively to deal; and to quote my friend William Salter, "as the essence of courage is to stake one's life on a possibility, so the essence of faith is to believe that the possibility exists."

These, then, are my last words to you: Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.

—William James (1842–1910), "Is Life Worth Living?," address to the Young Men's Christian Association of Harvard University, May 1895, reprinted in William James, The Will To Believe and Other Essays in Popular Philosophy, May 1897


Wednesday, September 10, 2025

September 12th, 2025




"I think we moderns lack love," Virginia Woolf (January 25, 1882-March 28,1941) diagnosed us in the first year of our deadliest war. 

The paradox is that when we lack something long enough, we forget what it looks like, what it means, how to recognize it when it comes along. And so we love without knowing how to love, wounding ourselves and each other.

“To love makes one solitary,” she wrote in Mrs. Dalloway a generation before Sylvia Plath contemplated the loneliness of love — because “nothing is so strange when one is in love… as the complete indifference of other people.”

The great tragedy of human life is that we ask of love everything and gives us an almost; the great triumph is that we know this, know the price of the illumination, and we choose to love anyway.


Bill Wilson linked love to emotional sobriety in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), emphasizing giving love to others as a path to spiritual and personal growth, rather than demanding to be loved in return. He connected this to the healing process, where breaking unhealthy dependencies allows one to "love the best in others" and achieve balance in relationships with oneself, others, and a higher power, inspired by the principles of the St. Francis Prayer

Bill Wilson 


September 11th, 2025

Kalachakra Mandala

The Kalachakra Mandala is a complex and profound sacred diagram in Tibetan Buddhism that represents the universe, the path to enlightenment, and the nature of time itself. The mandala's intricate design is not merely a work of art but a blueprint for meditation, guiding practitioners toward inner and outer peace.

“Change is never painful, only the resistance to change is painful.”  ~  Buddha 



Julian of Norwich in her Revelations of Divine Love.  

 It was necessary that there should be sin; but all shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well."


Julian asked: “Ah, good Lord, how could all things be well, because of the great harm which has come through sin to your creatures?” (227).

This was God’s response to her: “And so our good Lord answered all the questions and doubts which I could raise, saying most comfortingly: I make all things well, and I can make all things well, and I shall make all things well, and I will make all things well; and you will see for yourself that every kind of thing will be well. ... And in these words God wishes us to be enclosed in rest and peace.” (229)



Mother Julian wrote: “What, do you wish to know your Lord’s meaning in this thing? Know it well, love was his meaning. Who reveals it to you? Love. What did he reveal to you? Love. Why does he reveal it to you? For love. Remain in this, and you will know more of the same. But you will never, know different, without end” (342).

March 21st, 2026

Thoughts On Aging and Living &  The Second Half of Life  Etty Hillesum below  " No one can keep us from our second half of life exc...